General Message: Take your time!
I like long meetings because we have time to connect intimately. Well, that’s my ideal date, because sometimes things don’t go according to plan! Whether it’s for a night or a weekend, some people really want to make me happy me by doing all sorts of activities.
Examples:
For a night, we could go for a drink, then to a show, followed by dinner and then back to the hotel late at night, and in the morning at 9am it’s museum time!
For a weekend, we can have activities/visits planned all day and lunch and dinner reservations in wonderful restaurants all over the city (or region).
I’m always really excited about these kinds of dates, BUT it leaves little time and energy for intimate connections. There may be several reasons behind these President-on-an-official-visit schedules, but I’ve noticed that the most common is either the fear that I’ll be bored and frustrated spending all morning/afternoon in bed or that due to my partner’s fear of intimate moments they will over plan activities in order to avoid feeling uncomfortable.
In either case, the result is often that once it’s time to be in bed late at night after an incredibly enriching and full day, we’re exhausted or our fun has to be rushed between a midday dessert and a 3pm visit to the vineyards. As a result, we don’t really make the most of our time together, we sometimes flounder, we get a bit sloppy – in short, it’s not fulfilling for you or for me! And from experience, I know that if we have an overbooked schedule, I don’t even really enjoy the activity/restaurant because I always feel like I have to hurry.
So what do we do? First of all, we relax: although I love sharing experiences in good company, it doesn’t have to take up all of our time together. If you’ve got a huge list of activities and you don’t know what to choose, let’s discuss it together, see what’s the most fun and leave some afternoons and/or mornings free. We’ll have plenty of time on the big day to decide together what we want to do: stay in the bedroom, go for a walk, splash around in the pool, read, etc.
If you’re a bit scared of sex, you should know that even if we decide to spend a few hours in the bedroom, that doesn’t mean that sex/penetration will necessarily take place. Maybe it will lead to intercourse, maybe not, but what’s important is that this time leaves room for an intimate connection. We can cuddle, give eachother massages, have a bath together, read side by side, and so on. For me, it’s important to set aside slightly longer periods because it’s easier to relax and listen to each other if we have 3 hours ahead of us than if we only have 27 minutes, shower-and-dress included.
Having said that, I’ll leave you to read the rest of the page!
Overnight dates
Overnight dates are really intimate moments that can be fantastic…or catastrophic. Spending the night with someone is not trivial for me, it’s a special date that allows us to discover each other more (and you’ll have the honor to see my just-woken-up face with my messy hair, trust me, it’s not nothing!)
I’ve never been a girl who likes making love all night long: when I’m tired, my senses are totally turned off so I do not enjoy the moment. I’m also a person who needs at least 7 hours of sleep each night to be full of joy and energy during the day. Have I ever broken up with a boyfriend because he liked to wake me up, in the middle of the night to make love? Totally! As you can see, I’m not joking with my sleep. That could be seen as a little “extreme”, and I agree. I have also broken up for other reasons, but waking me up in the middle of the night was really the “pom-pom sur la Garonnette” (it’s like “cherry on the cupcake” but in a toulousaine version). I cannot understand how it’s ok to force your partner while you know that the only one who will have pleasure is you (even when it’s in a paying relationship).
In summary, if you are dreaming of spending the night making love till dawn or if you want to be able to wake up your partner whenever you want, you’ll understand that I’m not the woman of your dreams, sorry!
I only do these types of dates with men who, like me, want to sleep a minimum and enjoy the moment from the beginning to the end. Some colleagues propose 12-hour nights but I prefer longer nights. We meet early in the evening and I come home late in the morning (but you can extend our date and invite me for a lunch, I won’t say no to a good meal!). In that way we have two great moments for talking, drinking, eating and, of course, making love!
The evening
Depending on my schedule and yours, I like to arrive between 6 and 7pm. We meet for a drink, have dinner together and go over the world again and again until we find it more agreeable, and then we spend some time under the sheets.
I am not a night owl so after midnight, I know that I start feeling tired. I’m no longer too receptive to intimate moments, preferring moments of caress and tenderness. I don’t want to stay awake past 1am so that I’m not tired the next day and can enjoy our sweet morning together
The morning
I don’t like when someone jumps on me as soon as the alarm clock goes off. My body is still sleepy, just like my mind. I would rather spend some time in your arms, drinking a coffee and speaking about our dreams or what we are going to do during the day if we have a 24h date or more. Then, I’ll have a shower to continue to wake up my body with sweetness and we can have a tender moment in bed. After that, we can finally enjoy a breakfast in bed. Or maybe we can decide to eat with other people in the restaurant of the hotel (I really like breakfast buffets !). Depending on the time we have after all of that, we can cuddle again, go for a walk or spend some time in the hotel spa or at the fitness room.
I took time to describe how I like spending my overnight dates and I desire to grant these types of meetings only to men who totally agree with my expectations. If you lie and say that you’re ok, I think it’s too bad to ruin our date without respecting what I like.
You want me to stay awake till 4am to make love? You’ll be the only person enjoying the moment, my pleasure will be in the arms of Morpheus for a while.
You want to talk till 3am? I will not be really responsive and maybe I’ll fall asleep while you’re talking (even if you’re the most interesting person on earth).
We fall asleep at 2am but you decide to wake me up at 7am because you want to make love? I’ll be really tired, and you can be sure that I won’t have a good moment (even if we had a magical moment the day before).
What I want to say here is that I know my body and how it works, we have lived together for a long long time, it helps to understand it, believe me! So it’s useless to tell me, “with me it’s gonna be different!”. I’m not a psychic but I can predict that it will be a failure and the only one who will have pleasure is you.
Don’t want to spend the night alone in Toulouse but need to leave before 8am the next day? Don’t worry, we can do a ‘Short Night’: a night that unfolds as above (with my statutory 7 hours’ sleep of course) except that in the morning we wake up early, have breakfast and leave in the morning without going through the ‘morning cuddle’. Of course, you’ll have the right to a tender kiss before going to work!
Rates:
Toulouse: 1500 euros (+200 euros if you want to extend our date until lunch)
Short Night: 1200 euros in Toulouse (or Paris if I’m already there for my studies)
24 hours: 2000 euros
For meetings outside Toulouse, it’s HERE. Don’t hesitate to ask me for information if you’d like to meet me in another city.
A day with me
I know that meeting an escort may be really intimidating: “Will I please her? Won’t I be too uncomfortable?”
And you know what? I always ask myself the same questions before a date! Starting our rendez-vous with a glass of wine or a dinner can help being more comfortable. But there are plenty other activities to do!
You practice golf? Take me to the green and teach me
You’re passionate about flea markets? Amazing, so do I. Let’s go shopping for old use useless things!
You’re an art expert? Please, let me take your arm and be my private guide
You have horses? I’d love to spend an afternoon cuddling them while we’re talking You like cooking? Maybe you can teach me some receipts?
I’m somebody really curious so don’t be afraid to suggest me whatever you want. I can give you other examples, we could: play squash (I’m really bad at tennis but if you have enough patience and time, maybe you can teach me), go climbing (I really want to go back on climbing walls), go canoeing (but no rafting please, I have a really bad memory about my first and only ride on this), go hiking (what could be more romantic than a picnic with a breathtaking view), spend the evening at the opera/theatre, spend an afternoon in a spa or in a thalasso center
But, you better forget me for these activities:
- hunting (I don’t judge but it’s not my cup of tea)
- skydiving and bungee jumping (I doubt that you would like seeing me vomiting during our date)
- video games (I know a lot of colleagues who are better than me at this, you better call them)
- meeting your kids (I’m sure they are sweet but I don’t want to be mixed up with that)
- your BF’s bachelor party (a lot of men + alcohol = bad association for a relaxing date)
- your cousin’s wedding (moreover if your idea is to introduce me as your girlfriend, I promise that it will be a big failure)
As you can read, there are a lot of things to do if we want to break the ice.
I know that spending a night with a complete stranger can be frightening, so I think, sometimes, having a day date is a better idea, especially if we do an activity that you’re used to/at ease with.
We could meet in the morning (not too early please) or at noon and we spend the rest of the day between eating, enjoying our activity, walking and maybe cuddling (if you want to, of course).
If you have other ideas, feel free to let me know.
Rates :
Date in Toulouse or nearby with time under the sheets :
6 hours: 900 euros
8 hours: 1100 euros
From lunch to 11pm: 1500 euros
Date in Toulouse or nearby without intimacy:
6 hours: 400 euros
8 hours: 500 euros